你可以不要窝囊了吗？

We always knew that what we said will never really affect the outcome of others,

No matter how hard you try and against, the real tidings are still lies with the person themselves.

Are we using caring as an excuse to demoralized other's choices?

Or are we trying to make a difference, a accomplishment?

Only people themselves will know, and they know what they say will change: none.

So what's with all these rambling from before?

I should apology for anyone offended; some of them are pretty personal perhaps,

And I would comment on from such a high horse above,

Can someone tells me when and where to stop?

Change, is not a horrible thing.

Changes often leads to conflict, but conflicts deepen bonds more than anything,

Conflicts make us need to know more about the other person,

Everyone changes, that is only nature we will grow apart.

Even childhood friend that you think you knew so well,

After you push aside for so long, you expect them to be still the same?

But all of these are just their facade, make no mistake, they are still the same in their core.

Please don't say changing is horrifying,

Takes one to know one,

因为你自己改变了，才会觉得别人改变了，谁先无所谓。

Open for discussion and debates.

不懂你会看不，你在你部落格写的，我是每个都有看，不过你真的要我评论吗？